Welcoming a newborn into your life is an incredible and transformative experience, but it can also be overwhelming and exhausting. Amidst the joy and responsibilities of motherhood, it's essential not to neglect yourself. Self-care is not a luxury; it's a necessity. As a new mom, finding time for yourself might seem like an impossible task, but incorporating simple and effective self-care rituals into your daily routine can make a world of difference. As a community of mothers, we would love to share some practical self-care rituals that new moms can follow to ensure they still have self care and maintain their physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

1. (Try to) Find Some Me Time Before the Baby Wakes Up

As a morning ritual, start your day before the baby wakes up to get a head start on the day and engage in activities that will help you feel centered with yourself (even if it only lasts a few minutes). Whether it means drinking a warm coffee in peace or showering without having to rush, that time is specifically meant for you to feel like yourself. 

2. Create a Support Network

Don't hesitate to seek help from family, friends, or support groups. Having someone to assist with household chores, babysit, or simply lend an empathetic ear can give you some breathing space and a chance to focus on yourself for a while. Moms are so focused on giving to everyone else more than themselves that they forget to allow others to give back to them.

3. Nourish Your Body

A well-balanced diet is vital for both you and your baby. While it's tempting to reach for quick and easy snacks, try to prioritize nutritious meals. Prepare healthy snacks in advance to have on hand during busy moments. Staying hydrated is also essential, so make sure you're drinking enough water throughout the day.

4. Embrace Short Breaks

Even if you can't devote hours to self-care, embrace short breaks throughout the day. When your baby is content and safe, take a few minutes to engage in an activity you love, whether it's reading a book, doing a quick art project, or even watching a favorite show.

5. Get Moving

Exercise may seem like a distant memory, but even short bursts of physical activity can work wonders for your mood and energy levels. Consider going for a brisk walk with your baby in your Boba Carrier or doing some gentle yoga at home.

6. Take a minute to breathe

Being present in the moment can help reduce stress and anxiety. Whenever you find a moment, practice mindfulness by taking a few deep breaths and observing your thoughts and emotions without judgement.

7. Bedtime Wind-Down

As the day comes to a close, wind down with a soothing bedtime routine. Create a calm and comfortable sleep environment and engage in calming activities such as reading a book or practicing gentle stretches. A good night's sleep on the days that you get lucky will help you wake up feeling more refreshed. 

Becoming a new mom is a transformative experience, but it's vital not to forget about your own well-being in the process. Incorporating these self-care rituals into your daily routine will not only help you maintain "me time" but also ensure that you have the energy and emotional resilience to take care of your precious little one. Remember, self-care is not selfish; it's a way to show yourself love and compassion, making you an even better mother in the long run. It is difficult to show up for someone if you don't show up for yourself. You can only give if your cup is filled.